The Emotional Rollercoaster of Launching Your First Child

It’s a bittersweet moment, isn’t it? The day your firstborn packs their bags and heads off to college. A wave of emotions washes over you: pride, excitement, maybe a tinge of sadness, and perhaps a flicker of fear. It’s a normal, beautiful jumble of feelings, and it’s okay to acknowledge them all.

Pride:  Watching your child blossom into a young adult, ready to embark on a new adventure, fills you with immense pride. You’ve nurtured their dreams, witnessed their struggles, and cheered their triumphs. Now, they’re spreading their wings and taking flight, and it’s a testament to your love and guidance.

Excitement: This is a new chapter for your child and for you too. It’s a time of discovery, exploration, and personal growth. You can’t help but feel excited for them as they navigate new friendships, academic challenges, and the exhilarating freedom of college life.

Sadness: It’s natural to feel a pang of sadness as you realize your little one isn’t so little anymore. The house feels quieter, the dinner table less crowded, and the familiar routines seem to have vanished. It’s okay to miss their presence, their laughter, and the daily interactions that were once so commonplace.

Fear: Amidst the excitement, some apprehension might creep in. What if they miss home? What if they struggle academically? What if they have a terrible roommate situation? How will you cope when they’re not home? These are valid concerns, but remember, your child is well-equipped to face these challenges. Trust their resilience, their independence, and the support system they’ve built. If you need support, reach out for it. Isn’t that what you would tell your child to do?

Finding Your New Normal

Here’s the truth: these emotions aren’t mutually exclusive. You can be proud and excited while also feeling a tinge of sadness and fear. It’s a complex mix, but it’s what makes this experience so profound. Lean into these emotions, acknowledge them, and allow yourself to feel the full spectrum of this bittersweet moment.

Remember, this isn’t a goodbye, it’s a “see you later.” Your child might be miles away, but they’ll always carry a piece of your love and guidance with them. This is just the beginning of their journey, and you’ll be there to celebrate every milestone, every triumph, and every hurdle they overcome.

Connection doesn’t end at drop off. 

This transition is a lot. If you’re ready for some grounded guidance, I’m here. 

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